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You are Not Alone

13 Feb Posted by in alone, hope, Lonely, love | Comments

Valentines Day can be so romantic when you have a significant other waiting to celebrate with you. If you don’t have someone at the moment who loves you and wants to be with you, life can feel lonely and hopeless. You may wonder what is wrong with you. Remember feelings are not always based on truth. In this case, they rarely are. They are more likely to be based on circumstances: a recent break-up. a new job in a new place, or the right person just hasn’t come along yet. Please don’t judge yourself by whether you have a date for Valentines Day.

Our feelings are largely based on the messages we give ourselves. If you are feeling lonely, try this. Tell yourself the things you would like for somone else to tell you, such as:

  • You are loved.
  • You are beautiful.
  • You are intelligent.
  • You are funny.
  • You are caring.
  • You have a lot to give to others.

Say the things you would love to hear from a person of the opposite sex. Then go and buy yourself flowers, or candy, or whatever you would want a special person to give you. Hey, who knows better than you what your favorite candy is?

I would love for you to tell about something good that happened on Valentines Day.

Happy Valentines Day!

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